Buongiorno! I'm Elizabetta, and I'm delighted to share a bit of my lifelong love for ties with you.
I created this guide to help you navigate the world of ties—how to wear them well, choose the right colors, match styles to the occasion, and understand what sets a quality tie apart from the rest.
After reading this short guide, you’ll have everything you need to make the right tie choices for you.
Elizabetta Perkins
Would you like to know more about ties than most men?
As someone who’s spent over 22 years designing and working with handmade Italian silk accessories, I’ll guide you through the essentials—what every man should know about tie culture and smart selection.
The first three insights cover the essentials: understanding tie culture and how to choose the right one. Even if you stop there, you'll already be ahead of the curve, ready to wear your tie with confidence, purpose, and unmistakable style.
Insight One:
While Italy may be the modern-day heart of fine tie-making, the story of the necktie stretches back centuries—across continents and cultures.
Some of the earliest evidence of neckwear dates to ancient China, where warriors of the Qin Dynasty wore cloth bands around their necks as a symbol of status and allegiance.
A few thousand miles away and centuries later, it was Croatian mercenaries in the 17th century who wore knotted scarves as part of their military uniform. When they arrived in Paris during the Thirty Years' War, their distinctive style caught the eye of the French, who dubbed it “la cravate”—a nod to “Croat.” That’s where the story really began to take shape.
But it was we Italians who turned this humble piece of cloth into something far more expressive. Here in Lake Como, surrounded by beauty and tradition, we refined the art of tie-making. By the 1950s, as Italian fashion surged onto the global stage, our ties evolved from simple suit staples into powerful style statements.
While British and American designs favored structure and restraint, Italian fashion embraced movement, lightness, and personality—reflected in everything from slim silhouettes to vibrant, luxurious silks.
This period sparked what many call the golden age of Italian menswear. From Milan to Naples, ties bloomed with bold colors, daring patterns, and unmatched craftsmanship. The world took notice—especially in America, where demand for Italian textiles soared, and a lasting love affair with Italian accessories began.
Since then, the tie has never looked back. Whether it’s the world’s most powerful executives or the next generation of tastemakers, those who know, choose Italian. Because a tie shouldn’t just finish your outfit—it should say something about who you are.
Insight Two:
Here’s the real secret: a truly great tie comes down to three things—material, craftsmanship, and design. Get those right, and you’re already miles ahead.
Silk is not only luxurious and soft to the touch, it’s also one of the most versatile fabrics for a tie. It drapes elegantly, resists wrinkles, and adapts effortlessly across seasons. Whether in the chill of winter or the heat of summer, silk maintains its sophisticated, polished look.
At Elizabetta, we only use 100% Italian silk, sourced from small, family-run mills in Como. Each tie is crafted from one of several distinctive silk weaves:
Silk Jacquard:intricately woven patterns that shimmer and catch the light.
Madder Schappe Silk Saglione:a matte, powdery finish that gives vintage elegance.
Grenadine Garza Fina:an open-weave texture with subtle depth and breathability.
Panama Silk:also known as basket weave, it is a soft, supple fabric that is resistant to wrinkles.
Silk Twill:a durable, smooth weave with a rich, heavy drape.
Quality ties begin with thoughtful construction.
Ours are stitched using a loop stitch—a traditional technique that allows the tie to return to its original shape after being worn and stretched. In contrast, cheaper ties are machine-stitched with tight, rigid seams that don’t allow for movement, often resulting in twisting, stiffness, and a shorter lifespan.
And the fabric? It’s cut on the true bias—each tie piece is cut on the true 45° of the fabric. It’s a more expensive but essential method that gives the silk a natural "give", ensuring the tie lies flat and stays elegant over time.
We use a pure wool inner lining, which not only helps the tie to maintain its shape, but also makes it last longer, looking good.
Combined with our classic 3-fold construction, these details make all the difference—refined, timeless, and made to last.
A quality tie features a unique, well-thought-out pattern—something you won’t see replicated everywhere. It’s designed by real people - designers and artists - to be timeless and refined, not trendy.
In contrast, mass-produced ties often rely on generic, machine-made patterns that lack finesse and fail to make a lasting impression.
When choosing a tie, opt for designs that speak to your personality—or the image you want to project.
After all, few things say “refined” like a tie that’s not only handsome but worn with intention. (Don’t worry, we’ll talk about when and how to wear it next!)
Insight Three:
Whether you’re closing a business deal, attending a wedding, or just enjoying a casual day, a tie sets the tone and has the potential to tell a story.
Here’s how I recommend you choose based on a few common scenarios…
Solid colors, classic stripes and textures mean business.
They’ve been the go-to for world leaders, professionals and entrepreneurs since the tie became a fashion staple.
You’ll own the room wearing a tie that shows authoritative confidence.
Ensure you pick a darker color than the shirt you’re wearing and of course, something that doesn’t clash with the colors of your outfit.
Here are a few of my favorite picks:
There’s no better time to embrace floral or paisley than at a celebration. Whether it’s a wedding, festive gathering, attending a show, or simply eating out, these patterns strike the perfect balance between tradition and personal style.
They show you understand the classic art of dressing well, but you’re not afraid to enjoy yourself either—very much in the spirit of an Italian festa.
I like to call these “event ties”—pieces that capture everything I love about tie design: beautiful patterns, fine craftsmanship, and that subtle pull of attention that says, yes, I know exactly what I’m doing.
Here are 5 of our most popular ties I think everyone should have in their wardrobe:
Not sure what to choose? Here’s your secret weapon: Grenadine ties combine the best of both worlds.
A mix of sophistication and playfulness that is equally at home in a casual or professional setting.
Perfect for weekend adventures or a relaxed day at the office, they convey an Italian sense of sprezzatura (effortless style that people can’t help but love).
At Elizabetta, Grenadine ties are one of our specialities, originating right here around Lake Como. In fact, later on, I’d love to share a deeper insight into these wonderful accessories and why you should consider making them your new best friend.
In the meantime though, here are a few that I personally adore:
Bene! You now know more than most!
But we can go much further. Let’s talk about the areas of tie knowledge that will take you from “tie-fan” to “tie-aficionado”!
Starting with a deeper look at what each pattern really means…
Insight Four:
Every pattern has a personality, but it can be hard to know what they all mean.
So here’s my secret cheat sheet:
For festive occasions and any time you wish to show your creative side, a floral tie makes the perfect companion, bringing charm, color, and a touch of playful elegance.
These patterns—clean, structured, and often symmetrical—convey confidence and precision. They’re perfect for the man who values structure, precision, and a touch of understated sophistication.
A nod to the classics, with just enough pizzazz. From the Renaissance to the Beatles, paisleys carry a rich cultural heritage. If floral isn’t quite your style, why not try paisley at gatherings and events?
Who doesn’t love a bit of playful whimsy? Channeling the charm of the 1920s, a polka dot tie brings out your inner Gatsby, ideal for adding cheeky elegance to both everyday outfits or semi-formal events.
Sometimes, simple is best. Extremely versatile, solid ties are like a blank canvas that can be made to fit any outfit. From sharp suits to casual blazers, from business meetings to weddings, you can’t go wrong with a solid color.
Bold, assertive, and undeniably classic. Stripes have been a staple since the days of European royalty and stylish military uniforms. They’re perfect for making a statement of confidence in any professional setting.
Insight Five:
I need to say something that often goes ignored: A well-tied knot can give your entire look confident refinement.
Yes, it may seem simple, even inconsequential, but… knot-tying is anything but. What’s the use in having a stunning tie if a sloppy knot is drawing all the attention?
That’s why there are three key knots I suggest you learn.
The everyday hero of knots. Slightly asymmetrical and easy to master, it’s perfect for most everyday occasions when you want to look good without fuss. If you’re heading to a more casual event or outing, then the four-in-hand is your best pick.
Think of this as the “Goldilocks” knot, – not too big, not too small – but well balanced and suitable for both semi-formal and formal events. It works beautifully with most collar styles and is perfect for interviews or business meetings.
The big, bold knot – an undeniable statement of confidence. Great for formal events, weddings, or anytime you’re wearing a wider-spread collar. It’s symmetrical, impressive, and always commands attention. Save this knot for special occasions.
Insight Six:
Much like the pattern of your tie, color isn’t about “matching” the rest of your outfit; it’s about making a statement of your choice. Picking the right hue can elevate your entire look and set the tone for the occasion.
Here’s what I believe your tie color says about the message you want to convey…
Power, passion, and confidence. Perfect for bold business meetings or romantic dinners when you want to make a memorable impression.
Trust, calm, and professionalism. The most versatile color, suitable for everything from job interviews to weekend brunches.
Understated, refined, and sophisticated. Easy to mix and match, they’re your go-to for almost anything as grey complements practically every other color.
Regal, creative, and elegant. Perfect for tackling formal occasions with a touch of personality.
Warm, approachable and serious. These are great for less formal settings, weekend outings, or when you want to add some Italian warmth to your look.
Green communicates balance, confidence, and a connection to nature. It’s a versatile color that signals calm strength. It's a smart, stylish choice for the man who wants to stand out—quietly.
Insight Seven:
I promised I’d tell you more about Grenadine ties, the Italian classic with a textured twist.
Well, here’s exactly why I love them so much...
If you’re a lover of authentic Italian fashion, then these ties need to be high on your list.
Grenadines are a perfect example of Italian craftsmanship, with a weave unlike any other. Originating right here from the sun-drenched shores of Lake Como, grenadine ties boast a distinctive, textured fabric that sets them apart from your typical silk.
They’re both elegant and versatile, making them a staple in your wardrobe, whether you’re heading to a sophisticated brunch or a relaxed evening out.
Best of all, I see them far too infrequently, so they’re a perfect way to stand out while still wearing something that everyone is going to love.
The Italian name “garza inglese” or "English gauze" actually refers to the type of weave – an open, gauze-like, slightly textured fabric created on ancient looms.
Even though many modern gauze weaves exist, true grenadine fabric is only made in two mills in the world, both in Como (we work with both).
Unlike a smooth satin or a heavily patterned tie, the grenadine’s weave gives it a rich, matte finish with just enough texture to add interest. It’s light and breathable, making it a favorite for spring and summer, but it’s also timeless enough to wear all year round.
Because of its textured and slightly casual look, a grenadine tie strikes the perfect balance between formal and casual. It’s ideal for business meetings when you want to convey confidence without appearing too stiff, and it works beautifully at semi-formal weddings or social events when you wish to stand out subtly.
The open weave pattern also ensures it looks relaxed yet refined. In simple terms, it’s a way to look effortlessly stylish.
Pair it with a crisp white shirt and a well-tailored navy or gray suit – this is the traditional Italian way to exude elegance.
Or, for a more modern look, try it with linen blazers and light-colored trousers in warm weather. If you’re feeling bold, a patterned shirt or even a soft pastel can work well, as the textured fabric adds visual depth.
A simple four-in-hand or half-Windsor works perfectly, especially if you want to preserve the tie’s textured look. These choices are tight enough to look sharp but not so tight as to flatten its charm.
So, if you’re looking for a timeless look that will immediately set you apart, take a look at our selection of authentic grenadine ties.
The art of choosing the right tie isn’t just about what’s currently trendy, it’s about personal expression.
A well-chosen tie communicates confidence, style, and a slice of your personality. Remember, every tie tells a story, whether it’s represented by a classic stripe, a playful floral, or a textured grenadine.
Great style is timeless, much like the Italian-crafted ties that have been perfected over centuries. And at Elizabetta, we’re proud to carry that legacy in every silk tie we create.
So, experiment, have fun, and don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through your knots and colors. With a little practice and a sense of Italian flair, you’ll be tying your way into endless compliments.
